Dr. Paulette Sherman

Recognize Abusive Relationships and Move On

Recognize Abusive Relationships and Move On

There are important lessons we can learn about avoiding abusive dating relationships here: If you have had an abusive or controlling parent you will be more likely to choose that in a mate, unless you have worked on this issue. My book ‘Dating from the Inside Out’ explores this in more depth, in the Unconscious … Read more

What About Reuniting With an Ex?

What About Reuniting With an Ex?

Lightning usually only strikes once but there are exceptions to every rule: Here’s a popular relationship question: Should you get back together with your ex? Many people say that you should not try again with an ex-love because there were good reasons that you broke up in the first place. Often partners that reunite start … Read more

10 Dating Tips for 2019!

10 Dating Tips for 2019!

This year you can choose to be the captain of your own love boat. Embrace these 10 dating tips (or create your own) to taking action and fill your life with love! BE OPEN– Often we decide something is not right for us before we even give it a try! For example, many of my … Read more

5 Dating Tips from Michelle Obama and Me!

5 Dating Tips from Michelle Obama and Me!

Here are some dating tips from Michelle Obama and me.  I’ve integrated her dating advice and a few of her dating experiences to illustrate some of my dating tips: Notice how a guy treats you: Michelle describes her first date with Obama: “He was trying to sort of show all his sides. So, we went … Read more

12 Aphrodisiac Foods for You and Your Love

12 Aphrodisiac Foods for You and Your Love

Hi all, It’s almost the New Year 2019 and Valentine’s day-a time for love and new beginnings.  I’ve never written about aphrodisiac foods, probably because I don’t like cooking!  However, it’s a fun light topic that I haven’t covered… so here are 12 aphrodisiac foods that you and your love interest can munch on together.  … Read more

Is Taking ‘A Break’ while Dating Helpful?

Discernment Counseling

We all remember the infamous episode on the television show Friends where Monica and Ross declare that they are, ‘on a break.’  Then Ross sleeps with someone else and the two argue about whether this was cheating.  What are the rules for ‘taking a break’ in a long-term relationship, why do it and is it … Read more